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The Contact Preference Register (CPR) is a register that allows people affected by adoption to express their preferences for contact with birth family members. It enables individuals to state who they are willing to have contact with, share information with, or have no contact with at all. 

Please note this is a free service to members of the public, resident in Ireland or anywhere else in the world. 

There is no need to use a solicitor or other legal professional to apply for any services under the Birth Information and Tracing Act 2022.

About the CPR

    Functions of the CPR

    The Contact Preference Register is where people who have been affected by adoption can register their contact preferences and share information. The CPR also facilitates contact between people who have been matched. There are more details on the matching process below.

    The register is also a way to lodge an item. Applicants can lodge an item, like a letter or photograph, for a specified person. See section below on Lodging Items.

    Joining the CPR does not result in the release of birth and early life information, and if an adoptee wishes to obtain information relating to their adoption, they need to complete a birth information request.

    Make a birth information request

    Joining the CPR does not result in a trace.  Tusla - The Child and Family Agency manage all trace requests, and you can apply to Tusla for a trace. However, joining the CPR can help expedite a trace if a match is created on the CPR.  

    Apply to Tusla for a trace

    Who can apply?

    Eligible individuals, including adopted people, people who were fostered, birth family members, and those subject to illegal birth registrations, can apply to the Contact Preference Register.  You can choose an application form below.

    Contact preferences

    You can state:

    • Who you want to have contact with or share information with
    • What type of contact you would like (e.g., direct contact, or no direct contact but willing to share information)
    • A preference for no contact at all

    For more details see the CPR information leaflet

    Information sharing and lodging items

    You can share information and/or lodge items, like a letter or photograph, for a specific person. These items will be given to that person if they are also on the register and agree to accept the items or if the intended recipient is an adoptee and they apply to the Adoption Authority under the Birth Information & Tracing Act 2022 requesting provided items.

    If you have a digital copy of the item you would like to lodge, it can be attached to the CPR application form.

    Alternatively, you can package it securely and label it clearly, state why you are mailing the item and identify who it is intended for and post it to the following address:

    Records Team, 
    AAI, 
    PO Box 9957, 
    Dublin 4.

    Matching

    The register is checked for matches, and if a match is found, both parties are contacted by the Adoption Authority of Ireland (AAI) to inform them of the match.

    If a possible match is found on the CPR, you will be contacted by a member of the Authority’s Social Work Team who will advise you of the next steps. This will depend on the contact preferences you and the person you are matched with have chosen and may include the following:

    • The sharing, or requesting of information
    • The opportunity of contacting the applicant with whom you are matched
    • The opportunity to use the Adoption Authority’s mediation service
    • Access to any specific items that may have been lodged.

    If no match is found on the CPR, you will not be contacted because the person you are seeking is not currently on the register. If they join in the future, a match will be made and, depending on contact preferences, you will be contacted. In the meantime, you can submit a tracing application to Tusla.

    The AAI facilitates the contact, including offering mediation services.

    For more details see the CRP information leaflet

    Changing your contact details/preferences

    If you want to change your contact details or your contact preferences you can complete a new application form or you can send the details of your changes to records@aai.gov.ie. If you know your unique number quote it and send a copy of your in-date, valid ID. Alternatively, supply us with your ID and we will locate your original application and update it accordingly.

    Step-by-step guide to making a Contact Preference Register application

    Postal applications

    If it is easier for you to complete a hardcopy form, you can contact the Adoption Authority at 01 2309 300 (option 1) to ask a for a copy of the appropriate Contact Preference Register Form to be posted out to you.